{"id":1019,"date":"2016-10-07T09:06:52","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T09:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/?p=1019"},"modified":"2020-11-11T12:34:36","modified_gmt":"2020-11-11T12:34:36","slug":"10-za-sve-stesti-si-muzeme-sami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/?p=1019","title":{"rendered":"10. ZA SV\u00c9 \u0160T\u011aST\u00cd SI M\u016e\u017dEME SAMI"},"content":{"rendered":"

R\u00e1da bych popsala sv\u016fj hlavn\u00ed dojem z dovolen\u00e9 ve form\u011b kr\u00e1tk\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu s n\u00e1zvem Za sv\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed si m\u016f\u017eeme sami.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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V srpnu jsem byla na m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed dovolen\u00e9 s celou rodinou. B\u00e1la jsem se, jak bude spolu 5 lid\u00ed, 31 dn\u00ed, 24 hodin denn\u011b. Man\u017eel m\u011bl p\u0159ipraven\u00fd program na pobyt, ve kter\u00e9m bylo nutn\u00e9 do\u0159e\u0161it p\u00e1r detail\u016f: zda str\u00e1vit v\u00edce hodin zde nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e tady\u2026 Prvn\u00ed den m\u011bli  v\u0161ichni nad\u0161en\u00ed z nov\u00e9ho, proto domluva nebyla t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1. Krize p\u0159i\u0161la 3.den. U mne byla tak hlubok\u00e1, \u017ee jsem rozd\u011blila rodinu na nestejn\u00e9 poloviny a odm\u00edtla j\u00edt d\u00e1l, dokud si nedomluv\u00edme, co bude. Nakonec jsme v\u00fd\u0161lap absolvovali s hlubok\u00fdm p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00edm, ka\u017ed\u00fd nad sebou a s rozhodnut\u00edm, \u017ee ve\u010der bude porada 5. a vzejde z toho \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. Nebudu d\u00e1le popisovat d\u011bn\u00ed, jen tolik, \u017ee od nadch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00edho dne jsme m\u011bli asi nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dovolenou v \u017eivot\u011b. Mysl\u00edm,  \u017ee mohu mluvit za v\u0161echny. Vztahy jsou od t\u00e9 doby lep\u0161\u00ed. R\u00e1da bych V\u00e1m sd\u011blila to podstatn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. Jet na del\u0161\u00ed rodinnou dovolenou je riziko, ale m\u016f\u017eete pozitivn\u011b zm\u011bnit rodinn\u00e9 vztahy.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Pokud se m\u00e1te r\u00e1di a jste trochu p\u0159\u00edstupn\u00ed si s\u00e1hnout do sv\u00fdch kritick\u00fdch m\u00edst<\/i><\/b> (ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00edte, \u010d\u00edm V\u00e1s Va\u0161i p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed \u0161tvou), tak jim to s l\u00e1skou uka\u017ete.<\/i><\/b> Pozor – to nen\u00ed stejn\u00e9, jako m\u011bl by ses zamyslet, je to tv\u016fj probl\u00e9m. Sna\u017ete se nevracet sp\u011bt, \u201ekdy\u017e ty mne, tak j\u00e1 tob\u011b taky\u201c p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte, zda se chcete domluvit nebo se chcete poh\u00e1dat<\/span>)<\/p>\n

2. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte, kolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b (a zda v\u016fbec denn\u011b) d\u00e1te sv\u00fdm nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edm najevo, \u017ee je m\u00e1te r\u00e1di.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kdy jste to naposledy \u0159ekli, kolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b se obejmete, kolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b je  pochv\u00e1l\u00edte a kolikr\u00e1t zkritizujete (je v\u00edce pochval?), kolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b jim uzn\u00e1te pr\u00e1vo na chyby a ozn\u00e1m\u00edte i n\u011bjakou svou chybu, aby mohli m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee v\u0161ichni jsou omyln\u00ed, a \u017ee je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u011blat chyby. Dejte bl\u00edzk\u00fdm najevo, \u017ee je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed se u\u010dit na vlastn\u00edch chyb\u00e1ch a moudr\u00e9 u\u010dit z chyb jin\u00fdch.<\/b><\/p>\n

3. Hledejte radost v \u017eivot\u011b, jsme na zemi proto, abychom byli \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed.<\/span><\/strong> Mus\u00edte p\u0159estat hledat d\u016fvody, pro\u010d v\u011bci nem\u016f\u017eete d\u011blat a za\u010dn\u011bte hledat d\u016fvody a zp\u016fsoby pro\u010d a jak je ud\u011blat (pokud v\u00edte, \u017ee by to bylo dobr\u00e9).<\/p>\n

Schv\u00e1ln\u011b: pamatujete si jak\u00e9 r\u016f\u017ee rostou v okol\u00ed kudy ka\u017ed\u00fd den chod\u00edte?, jac\u00ed pt\u00e1ci l\u00edtaj\u00ed nad Va\u0161i hlavou (v\u0161imli jste si, \u017ee je u n\u00e1s v posledn\u00ed dob\u011b v\u00edce ji\u0159i\u010dek ne\u017e vla\u0161\u0165ovek?…) Kdy jste se naposledy usm\u00e1li na svou \u017eenu, mu\u017ee, d\u011bti. Kdy jste naposledy sledovali tok \u0159eky, poryv v\u011btru… jen tak. V\u0161echno je jen tak kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 jak kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 to chceme vid\u011bt.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. D\u011blejte nejv\u00edce to, co se V\u00e1m l\u00edb\u00ed, nebo to co pova\u017eujete za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Pokud mne n\u011bco moc vy\u010derp\u00e1v\u00e1, mus\u00edm to zm\u011bnit, nebo mus\u00edm zm\u011bnit sv\u016fj postoj k tomu.<\/span> <\/strong>Mus\u00edm uvedenou v\u011bc d\u011blat jinak, proto\u017ee tak, jak jsem to d\u011blala dote\u010f, to nefunguje- to u\u017e v\u00edm, jinak by situace zanikla. Sama jsem za\u017eila situaci, kdy jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee dne\u0161ek je mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00fdm posledn\u00edm, a proto se sna\u017e\u00edm neztr\u00e1cet \u010das zbyte\u010dn\u00fdmi v\u011bcmi. D\u011bl\u00e1m hlavn\u011b to, co chci j\u00e1, ale v souladu s pot\u0159ebami m\u00e9ho nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edho okol\u00ed, proto\u017ee:<\/p>\n

kdy\u017e budu \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 j\u00e1, bude z\u00e1konit\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed i moje okol\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n

 <\/b>Jedno motto na z\u00e1v\u011br:<\/p>\n

Vyber si pr\u00e1ci, kter\u00e1 T\u011b bav\u00ed a ani jedin\u00fd den sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota nebude\u0161 muset pracovat. <\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Podle toho se sna\u017e\u00edm \u017e\u00edt. M\u00e1m V\u00e1s r\u00e1da a p\u0159eji V\u00e1m, aby se V\u00e1m \u017eivot l\u00edbil.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

R\u00e1da bych popsala sv\u016fj hlavn\u00ed dojem z dovolen\u00e9 ve form\u011b kr\u00e1tk\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu s n\u00e1zvem Za sv\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed si m\u016f\u017eeme sami.   V srpnu jsem byla na m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed dovolen\u00e9 s celou rodinou. B\u00e1la jsem se, jak bude spolu 5 lid\u00ed, 31 … Cel\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moje-desatero"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1019"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1603,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1019\/revisions\/1603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}