{"id":1857,"date":"2021-05-03T12:55:22","date_gmt":"2021-05-03T12:55:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/?p=1857"},"modified":"2021-05-03T13:03:45","modified_gmt":"2021-05-03T13:03:45","slug":"samouzdravovaci-novinky-najdete-sve-srdecni-aha-momenty-a-stripky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/samouzdraveni.cz\/?p=1857","title":{"rendered":"Samouzdravovac\u00ed novinky – Najd\u011bte sv\u00e9 srde\u010dn\u00ed AHA momenty a st\u0159\u00edpky"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Moji mil\u00ed je tady m\u00e1j l\u00e1sky \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obdob\u00ed srde\u010dn\u00fdch z\u00e1le\u017eitost\u00ed, radosti a bezstarostnosti. Jd\u011bte s radost\u00ed do realizace sn\u016f a toho, co pova\u017eujete za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, te\u010f to p\u016fjde d\u00edky energii srdce o hodn\u011b l\u00e9pe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes p\u00ed\u0161i o partnerstv\u00ed a \u017een\u011b. T\u00e9mata nakousnu a nech\u00e1m otev\u0159en\u00e1, je pro V\u00e1s lep\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e si na sv\u00e9 AHA momenty p\u0159ijdete sami. Pokud je nevid\u00edte, r\u00e1da V\u00e1m pomohu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My \u017eeny m\u00e1me n\u011bkdy hodn\u011b kritick\u00fd pocit, \u017ee nejsme hezk\u00e9, p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9, \u017ee vztah u\u017e nen\u00ed, co b\u00fdval\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro\u010d jste po\u0159\u00e1d se sv\u00fdm partnerem, pro\u010d ho r\u00e1da vid\u00edte (ur\u010dit\u011b m\u00e9n\u011b kriticky ne\u017e sebe)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b z t\u011bchto d\u016fvod\u016f je i on (nekriticky) s V\u00e1mi. Tady bych vzdala hold na\u0161im partner\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed navzdory tomu, jak se vid\u00edme, n\u00e1s neust\u00e1le maj\u00ed r\u00e1di.<\/em><\/strong> Pozn\u00e1te to jednodu\u0161e. Proto\u017ee jsou po\u0159\u00e1d s n\u00e1mi, proto\u017ee po\u0159\u00e1d maj\u00ed chu\u0165 n\u00e1s m\u011bnit (i kdy\u017e je to pro n\u011b nam\u00e1hav\u00e9 \u2013 n\u00e1mahu chlapi nemaj\u00ed r\u00e1di a bolestn\u00e9 \ud83d\ude00). To znamen\u00e1 \u017ee jsme pro n\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016fj man\u017eelsk\u00fd vztah je ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, <\/strong><\/em>a to je to podstatn\u00e9. Plnohodnotn\u00fd l\u00e1skypln\u00fd vztah vy\u017eaduje p\u00e1r pravidel (zde jsou m\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed partnersk\u00e9 AHA momenty).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Svoboda a d\u016fv\u011bra \u2013 milujeme svobodu, a tak si d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujeme. Man\u017eela nevlastn\u00edm. D\u011bl\u00e1m v\u0161e, co dok\u00e1\u017eu, aby mu bylo se mnou nejl\u00e9pe.<\/li>
  2. Nikdy na n\u011bj ani nepomysl\u00edm hanliv\u00fdm v\u00fdrazem \u2013 je pro mne tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd, \u017ee to nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9. Nejhor\u0161\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 i nejlep\u0161\u00ed slovo, kdy\u017e jsem na\u0161tvan\u00e1, nebo mu chci projevit obdiv tak to je <\/u>\u201emistr sv\u011bta\u201c<\/u><\/em> a on m\u00e1 pro mne v\u00fdraz, kter\u00fd pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 tak\u00e9 v\u00a0obou p\u0159\u00edpadech, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 \u017ee \u201eto jsou ty v\u00edl\u00ed n\u00e1pady\u201c<\/u><\/em> Stejn\u00e1 slovn\u00ed spojen\u00ed pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me jako pochvalu a z\u00e1rove\u0148 jako v\u00fdraz pro \u00falevu p\u0159i vzteku a nepochopen\u00ed.<\/li>
  3. Mluv\u00edme spolu. Nedok\u00e1\u017eeme sp\u00e1t bez vy\u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, tak\u017ee mluv\u00edme i do r\u00e1na. Zjistili jsme, \u017ee n\u00e1m na n\u00e1s vad\u00ed ty sam\u00e9 v\u011bci (oba si \u010dasto mysl\u00edme, \u017ee ustupuje ten druh\u00fd \ud83d\ude00\u2026).<\/li>
  4. Nech\u00e1v\u00e1me si sv\u00e9 individu\u00e1ln\u00ed kon\u00ed\u010dky a budujeme nav\u00edc spole\u010dn\u00e9.<\/li>
  5. Uv\u011bdomujeme si, \u017ee spole\u010dn\u00fd vztah je investice (\u010dasu, n\u00e1mahy, radosti, pochopen\u00ed\u2026).<\/li>
  6. Kdy\u017e jsem ve vztahu hodn\u011b nespokojen\u00e1, \u0159e\u0161\u00edm to tak, \u017ee d\u00e1v\u00e1m to, co mi chyb\u00ed, tak jak to chci dost\u00e1vat.<\/li>
  7. Nem\u016f\u017eu cht\u00edt po partnerovi, aby byl ten nej\u00fa\u017easn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nej\u2026 na sv\u011bt\u011b, pokud nem\u00e1m, co nab\u00eddnout. Pozor: to, co se l\u00edb\u00ed \u017een\u011b se nemus\u00ed l\u00edbit chlapovi (to, \u017ee m\u00e1 doma uklizeno nen\u00ed protihodnota pro chlapy)<\/li>
  8. Mu\u017ei a \u017eeny jsou jin\u00ed reaguj\u00ed i mysl\u00ed jinak, mluvte spolu o tom<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Sl\u00edbila jsem V\u00e1m tak\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed AHA st\u0159\u00edpky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee \u017eena sexem zkr\u00e1sn\u00ed a st\u00e1rne pomaleji, ale jen v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se na sex t\u011b\u0161\u00ed. Pokud to tak je, v\u017edy ji to omlad\u00ed. Bu\u010fme za to r\u00e1dy, chlapi v\u011bt\u0161inou po sexu (dle Tao) ztr\u00e1cej\u00ed a st\u00e1rnou. My ne. \u017dena p\u0159i sexu st\u00e1rne rychleji, jen pokud si ho neu\u017eije nebo je k n\u011bmu, jakkoliv donucena, nebo rozumem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dena. Jestli chcete m\u00edt kr\u00e1sn\u011b tvarovan\u00e9 b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko, pln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rty, kr\u00e1sn\u011b svalnat\u00e9 ruce, lep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fddr\u017e i ple\u0165, b\u00fdt v\u00edce prota\u017een\u00e1 a m\u00edt perfektn\u00ed p\u00e1nevn\u00ed dno, nen\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed ne\u017e sex, a nav\u00edc je to kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 \ud83d\ude00.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Na z\u00e1v\u011br jedno hezk\u00e9 r\u010den\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kdy\u017e ukl\u00edz\u00ed mu\u017e \u2013 je o vid\u011bt. Kdy\u017e \u017eena neukl\u00edz\u00ed \u2013 je to vid\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    R\u00e1da bych n\u011bkomu v\u011bnovala Bachovy esence. N\u011bkomu, kdo se odv\u00e1\u017e\u00ed a nap\u00ed\u0161e mi zde na Facebook nebo na str\u00e1nky co se mu ve vztaz\u00edch osv\u011bd\u010dilo, nebo n\u011bkomu, kdo se neboj\u00ed a na n\u011bco se ve\u0159ejn\u011b zept\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A\u0165 se V\u00e1m v \u017eivot\u011b d\u011bj\u00ed z\u00e1zraky, kter\u00e9 si zp\u016fsob\u00edte srdcem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Adri\u00e1na<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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